PAPARAZZI SAYS: “J. WILLIAMS AND NEW GIRLFRIEND SPOTTED IN TIMES SQUARE“

“They say true love is hard to find. The question is: if you find love, how do you keep it amongst the outside influences??? SIMPLY PUT: you ignore them ! My girlfriend, “Chanel“, and I have been together for a little over a month and when we are together physically, it takes a crowbar to pry us apart. Even though that’s the case, it seems like everybody else would like to be that crowbar. But shouldn’t both partied be strong enough to not give in? No matter how many people claim Barack Obama will never be President in the media because of his complexion, does he back out and say “hmmm…maybe they are right…”. Better yet, does he even bother to stop and give time to those people with a rebuttal? NO!

The only way to survive the odds is by putting on blinders and continuing ahead FULL STEAM!!! When you have enough faith and will to be with one person because of how much they make your life better, a text message from an ex is easily ignored, especially when that person shitted on you HARD (pardon my language…haha )!!! I’ve had so many people hating on my relationship with her from the beginning ’til even recently.

She told me yesterday that someone wrote in her honesty box on FACEBOOK that she could “do better than me”. Now, “Chanel” is very pretty and, I mean, I know I’m fly (otherwise she wouldn’t have talked to me) but people have their own perceptions based on their preferences and thats fine. What I hate is when people become naysayers and don’t know what they’re talking about. :stfu: I’m not being arrogant, but WHAT IS BETTER?!?! I’ll take notes… :paper: A dude who may be seen as “super-pretty” and because of that has a problem with keeping his penis in one vag??? Some n*gga that’s going to tell her what she wants to hear just so he can get some and split?? A cat who doesn’t want to spend time with her just because he wants to run the street with his homies?

It trips me out when we are walking the streets together and dudes stare at her. Not because I’m jealous, but because I know they aren’t in it for the long haul. They don’t care about what she is about, but rather what gratification she can give them. Then I come to the realization that I look at other girls too. At the end of the day, dudes are dudes. So they can keep staring, because they can’t give her what I do.

All I’m saying is I’ve done my best to not pay attention to them or any outside influences which can bring insecurity into the strength of our relationship because all that matters is her, not what someone else has to say or do. Those things have become irrelevant .“